Learn to chat
Many people have experienced the stage of "unable to speak", and chatting is a very important part of social networking. You think you are a person with an active atmosphere, but maybe others will think you are very annoying, especially the one who chews your tongue, and you don't know whether the person in your mouth intersects with the person listening to you, I believe some people have suffered because they "can't speak".
To tell you the truth, I am not a person with high EQ, but I have always adhered to the principle of "sit still and think about myself, gossip and don't talk about people's non". I don't understand, don't evaluate, and don't make blind evaluation, so many people are willing to communicate with me. I have seen Li Xiaoyi's video about chatting before. She is a woman with high EQ in my mind, I didn't expect that there was a time when EQ was not high. This happened 20 years ago. She shook her wits with her teacher's embarrassment. Unexpectedly, the other party was someone else's daughter. I was embarrassed for Li Xiaoyi off the screen, not to mention herself. It was also this thing that Li Xiaoyi knew the value of keeping silent. She said at the end of the video: we learned to speak in two or three years, But it took a lifetime to learn silence. It's really reasonable. I suggest everyone can go and have a look.