1. Identify common topics
The common topic is the premise of chatting. Boys usually talk about cars, games and other topics; Girls can talk about clothes, TV dramas, cosmetics, etc; The topic between boys and girls to find a balance, now love to chase drama boys and girls love to play games are not a few, find the same interest at least will not appear "embarrassed chat" situation. The dialogue between the elders is easier than that between their peers. They talk more about strange people and strange things with them, show a thirst for talents, let the old man tell about his youth, and ask questions in places they don't understand. The old man likes this kind of chat very much.
2. Be able to hold
When chatting with unfamiliar people, don't be too self-centered and give others time to talk. Otherwise, it's easy to give people a strong feeling. It's very bad for making friends in the early stage. When chatting, you should use proper language and don't swear. Your friends may know who you are, but strangers don't. control the time of chatting, It should not be too long or too short. Pay attention to enunciation clearly, don't speak out loud, and don't spit in the process of speaking.
3. Take it easy to chat
When both parties have no common interest but have to chat, you can use the main chat mode. You can start a topic, which can be your funny experience, doubts, social news. At this time, if the other party smiles or answers your questions, it means that the chat can continue. If there is no cooperation, stop in time. When chatting with the boss, try not to focus on the work. You can talk about the new changes near the company and what you ate today.