Sunday, September 19, 2021
If you spend a long time together, it's normal not to talk. If you spend only a few months together, it's not normal not to talk. Maybe your object doesn't like you very much.
Many topics have been basically talked, and it is difficult to continue. With a basic understanding of each other, the initial mystery disappeared, and I lost my enthusiasm for conversation.
It's important to remember that even if you're a boyfriend and girlfriend, you all have your own plans. For example, if you are watching a movie, do you want to hear your mother nag? dislike. So are boyfriend and girlfriend. Once the relationship stabilizes, there will be a sense of alienation.
Because each other (especially men) will start to pay attention to what they are interested in, rather than constantly chatting, joking, or even distracting at the beginning. At this point, thoughtful daily dialogue has become a burden on each other.
Keep an appropriate space. It's not necessary to contact each other every day. Try to choose each other when they are free and energetic. Remember to ask each other if they are busy. If they are busy, don't insist on chatting.
Choose the most direct way. If you can meet, don't call. If you can call, don't send text messages. Try to communicate directly without interference and get along with each other effectively every once in a while. If it's a meeting, don't just go shopping or shopping. Choose more things that can bring conversation topics, such as watching movies, climbing mountains, traveling or looking for food.
Chat and find topics
If you don't have a topic, find a topic, but don't be limited to one topic at the beginning.
First assess the other person's age and dress.
If your age is similar to your own, you can start from each other's life fields, such as where people are, the specialties of your hometown, how many years you have been out, your feeling in a foreign land, whether your work is stable or not, and whether you plan to buy a house here are all topics.
If you judge from each other's clothes that they are famous brands, you can first boast that each other's clothes are suitable and beautiful, and then talk about what kind of brand is coming out now. Then, since she has the ability to consume high, it means that she has high income, you can learn from which company she works in, the products of that company, etc. such a person with a sense of economic superiority might as well find topics related to her work as usual, She'll be more willing. If the other party wears ordinary clothes, first observe her words and deeds to prevent low-key rich people from being regarded as ordinary people, so as to avoid looking for the wrong topic. If the other party's words and deeds tell you that she is not a very confident person, it shows that she will not be in a high position in the workplace. You can talk with her about entertainment, TV dramas, etc.
In short, as long as you observe carefully and think from the other party's position, you will always find a topic and become a good chat object.
Saturday, September 18, 2021
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